The Milk is Still Bad And Other Cautionary Tales From A Divorce Lawyer

Relationship Tip of The Day - Stop Looking

You will  most likely find that special someone when you are not looking and not trying.  You need to be able to stay home on a Friday or Saturday night alone and watch a movie or read a book, and be OK with that. If you feel compelled to go out with your single friends on "date night" and try to hook up, you are not ready to meet that special someone.  People can tell if you are looking, just like a mean dog can tell if you are afraid, he can smell fear.  The same is true for people, they can smell desparation, and its not attractive.

be safe and be smart - charlie

Relationship Tip - Opposites Don't Attract, or Do They?

You know the old saying "opposites attract". That may be true about magnetic poles or electrical charges, but my guess is that really does not hold true over the long term when it comes to relationships.  Many people get into relationships initially because of a physical attraction, only to learn later that they are quite the opposite in how they think, what they enjoy, and how they live their life. This reality may not come early on in the relationship because it takes a while for people to open up and share, and it takes a while to recognize that that you have fundamental differences.  With a little practice you can learn to identify certain character traits, mannerisms, and habits that come with a certain personality.  I call them relationship types, and there are about perhaps twenty relationship types that you can learn to identify, such as the sports personality, the scrapbooking or hobby type,  the wild and outgoing type, the rebelious type, the laid back type, and so on.  In order to make a relationship work in the long term, I have found that matched types tend to stay together longer.

 

Relationship Tip - How To Spot A Bad Relationship Before It Happens

As a divorce lawyer, there is one thing that people tend to over look, if all your friends are telling you that a particular person is not a good fit for you, and you are the only person that thinks the relationship is a good idea, there is a good chance you are wrong and all your friends are right.  Typically if you are in a romantic relationship your view of the situation may be clouded by your emotions. Others such as friends and family may have a more neutral unbiased view of things.  Take the advice of friends and family on relationships.  Good advice for friends and family, dont be afraid to speak up and tell your loved one that they are making a mistake. Too many times, people are afraid to say anything for fear of offending, and they allow their friend or family member to make a big mistake that can last for years and be devastating.  

Love Stinks

Love Stinks is the eleventh album by American rock band The J. Geils Band, released in 1980 (see 1980 in music).

The title song is a rant against unrequited love. It has been covered by industrial metal band Bile, by Andru Branch in the film Love Stinks, Joan Jett in the film Mr. Wrong and Adam Sandler in the movie The Wedding Singer. The song was also featured in the film Opie Gets Laid. As of late July 2009, "Love Stinks" is heard in a series of Swiffer commercials.

I dont really think love stinks, just wanted to get your attention.

The Milk Is Still Bad - And Other Cautionary Tales From A Divorce Lawyer

This book is a Provocative and Satirical Look at Relationships in Our Modern World. Did you ever wish that you had a crystal ball when you start a new relationship that could help you to know  if things were going to work out?  What Everyone should know before they tie the knot, this book will help you to see it coming, and when necessary, run the other way.  When we meet someone new we are often captivated by physical appearance, or sex appeal. You may have invested a lot of time in a relationship before you start to notice things that don’t seem quite right, or that you would like to change about your love interest. You should be able to recognize the relationship type before you get into it . In this book the author shares with you the knowledge of a divorce lawyer practicing for fifteen years, someone that has heard almost every imaginable story about why things didn’t work out?  This book presents a humorous light hearted look at marriage and relationships in today’s world, and some realistic considerations for anyone about to get into a relationship.  Recognize  yourself and others in one of these relationship types, and possibly avoid investing time in a relationship that is not going to be a good fit for you.  Beyond the humor, this book provides some practical considerations before entering into any long term relationship, that may lead to longer lasting and more successful relationships, or may help you spot a relationship type that you may not wish to become involved with. This book is written from the perspective of a divorce lawyer, sitting across the desk, listening to every reason in the world that relationships have failed for the past fifteen years.  The objective is not to be another boring lawyer book, but rather to be funny, entertaining, and provide a unique perspective on relationships never presented before.   After reading this book you will be able to recognize your own relationship in one of the chapters of this book.  This is not a how to book, nor is it a self help improve your relationship type book, rather this  book should cause people to start talking about relationship types, why relationships fail, and recognize the relationship type that they are  involved in, or considering. Most  relationships fail because people are not aware that there are relationship categories that can be easily identified with a little practice. When a relationship is entered blindly simply because people are physically attracted to each other, or because they didn’t know any better, it may be destined for failure. Also included is a very important and life saving chapter to help anyone identify a possible domestic abuser before they get involved in a relationship. ECVTEWGSWEQU

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