You will most likely find that special someone when you are not looking and not trying. You need to be able to stay home on a Friday or Saturday night alone and watch a movie or read a book, and be OK with that. If you feel compelled to go out with your single friends on "date night" and try to hook up, you are not ready to meet that special someone. People can tell if you are looking, just like a mean dog can tell if you are afraid, he can smell fear. The same is true for people, they can smell desparation, and its not attractive.
be safe and be smart - charlie
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